Coaching & Workshops

Nobody said a word for two years. Now you want to fire him.

The performance conversation that happens early is uncomfortable. The one that happens two years late is a legal problem. This session teaches managers to raise it while it is still fixable, and to document it properly when it is not.

Why it matters

Almost every messy exit started as a conversation nobody had.

Managers avoid performance conversations because they expect conflict and have no script. So the issue goes into the review, softened, or into nothing at all. Two years later the record says the person met expectations every single year and you are trying to justify a termination.

That gap is the single most common reason a defensible decision becomes an expensive one. It is also the reason good people stay stuck, because nobody ever told them plainly what was wrong while there was still time to fix it.

What the session covers

  • Raising it early. How to name a problem in week two rather than month twenty.
  • Specific over general. Turning "attitude" and "not a team player" into observable behavior.
  • Writing it down. What a contemporaneous note should contain, and why it matters later.
  • When it is not working. Moving to a formal process without ambushing anyone.

In the room

How we spend the time.

The early conversation

Short, specific, private, and framed as a fix rather than a verdict. Most problems end here if they are raised here.

Making it concrete

"You missed three deadlines in March and did not flag any of them" is actionable. "You need to step up" is not.

The paper trail

What to write, when, and how to keep a record that reads as fair rather than as a case being built.

Signs you need this

How this usually shows up.

The pattern is almost always the same: the problem was known for a long time and named for the first time when someone had already decided how it would end.

If two or three of these are true you are past the point where it resolves on its own. None of them are unusual, and all of them are cheaper to fix than to wait out.

Sound familiar

  • Someone's last three reviews say met expectations and you are now discussing exit options.
  • Managers describe problems to HR that they have never described to the employee.
  • Reviews contain surprises.
  • You have a person everyone knows is struggling and no written record of anyone saying so.

Afterward

What changes.

Problems surface early

When they are still fixable, and when the person still has a reasonable chance to fix them.

The record matches reality

Documentation that reflects what was actually said, which is what makes a later decision defensible.

Fewer surprises at review

Nothing in a review should be new. That is the standard, and it is achievable.

How it runs

Half a day, senior-led, no slides for the sake of slides.

Every manager who supervises directly or conducts reviews. Best delivered to a whole management layer together so the standard is consistent across the organisation.

Sessions run on site or virtually, and they are built around situations attendees bring rather than case studies from a textbook. You get a fixed fee before we start, and the person who scopes it is the person who delivers it.

Practicalities

  • Half a day in most cases, longer if combined with a related session.
  • On site or virtual, whichever suits your people.
  • Built on your situations, not generic scenarios.
  • Fixed fee, agreed before anything starts.

Questions

Common questions

Is this legal training?

No. We prepare managers for the conversation and for sensible documentation. Anything touching protected classes, discipline policy or termination goes to your employment counsel.

Who should attend?

Every manager who conducts reviews or supervises directly. It works best when a whole management layer attends together, so the standard is consistent.

Do you cover PIPs?

We cover the point at which a performance improvement plan becomes appropriate and how to introduce one without it reading as a countdown. The plan document itself should be reviewed with HR and counsel.

How long?

Half a day, including practice. The practice is the part that changes behavior.

Can we combine it with feedback training?

Yes, and many clients do. They are close cousins and a full-day combined session works well.

What if the manager is the problem?

It happens, and a group session will usually surface it. We would raise that with you privately rather than address it in the room.

Do you cover terminations?

Not the decision or the mechanics, which belong with HR and counsel. We cover the conversations in the year before, which is where most of the difficulty is actually created.

How does this fit with our review process?

It sits underneath whatever process you run. Good conversations make a mediocre process work and no process survives bad ones.

Related

What this pairs with.

Feedback That Lands

The everyday version of the same skill, before it becomes a performance issue.

Feedback That Lands →

Expectations and Accountability

Most performance problems start as unclear expectations.

Expectations and Accountability →

Leadership Coaching

For managers carrying a particularly difficult situation.

Leadership Coaching →

Senior-led, delivered by the person you meet

Stop finding out at the exit interview.

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