Coaching & Workshops

He is working every weekend because he will not hand anything over.

The manager who does everything themselves is usually your best individual contributor and your biggest single point of failure. This session works on why they hold on and what has to change for them to stop.

Why it matters

Delegation is not a time-management problem.

People who will not delegate almost never lack a system. They lack a way to be comfortable with work being done differently, and slightly worse, by someone still learning. Telling them to prioritise does nothing, because the barrier is not the calendar.

The cost compounds quietly. The manager burns out, the team never develops, nobody can cover a holiday, and your best person becomes the reason nobody else grows. It usually surfaces as a resignation, either theirs or from someone who got bored waiting.

What the session covers

  • Why they hold on. Usually fear of quality, sometimes identity, occasionally a manager who punished a past mistake.
  • What to hand over first. A practical sort of the work into keep, share and give away entirely.
  • Handing over properly. The difference between delegating a task and dumping one.
  • Living with worse, for a while. How to let someone learn without stepping back in.

In the room

How we spend the time.

An honest audit

Everything they did last month, sorted by whether it actually needed them. Most people are surprised by how much did not.

The handover conversation

How to give work away with enough context that it succeeds, and enough room that the person owns it.

Resisting the takeback

The moment something is late or imperfect and the instinct is to grab it back. This is where delegation usually dies.

Signs you need this

How this usually shows up.

The tell is not busyness. It is that the team around this person has stopped developing, which is much harder to see and much more expensive.

If two or three of these are true you are past the point where it resolves on its own. None of them are unusual, and all of them are cheaper to fix than to wait out.

Sound familiar

  • Someone on your team cannot take a holiday without work stopping or following them.
  • Their team is quiet in meetings because the answers all come from one place.
  • They are the only person who knows how something works, and everyone accepts that.
  • Their own manager has raised workload with them more than once and nothing changed.

Afterward

What changes.

Work actually moves

A specific list of things handed over, with names against them, rather than an intention to delegate more.

The team grows

People who were waiting for permission get real work, which is usually the retention story underneath this.

Holiday becomes possible

The practical test. If the team functions for two weeks without them, it worked.

How it runs

Half a day, senior-led, no slides for the sake of slides.

Managers and senior individual contributors who are overloaded. Often run for a whole management layer at once, because the habit tends to be cultural rather than personal.

Sessions run on site or virtually, and they are built around situations attendees bring rather than case studies from a textbook. You get a fixed fee before we start, and the person who scopes it is the person who delivers it.

Practicalities

  • Half a day in most cases, longer if combined with a related session.
  • On site or virtual, whichever suits your people.
  • Built on your situations, not generic scenarios.
  • Fixed fee, agreed before anything starts.

Questions

Common questions

Who is this for?

Managers and senior individual contributors who are overloaded, and anyone whose team cannot function when they are away.

Is this just time management?

No, and time-management training is usually why the problem persists. The barrier is rarely the system. It is discomfort with someone else doing the work.

Can it be run for a whole team?

Yes, and it often works better that way, because the people receiving the work get to say what they need to succeed with it.

How long?

Half a day, with a follow-up session about a month later to see what actually got handed over.

What if the person genuinely is the only one who can do it?

Sometimes true, and then you have a succession problem rather than a delegation problem. We will say so.

What if they delegate and it goes badly?

It will, at least once, and that moment is the whole workshop. We spend real time on what to do when the first handover comes back late or wrong, because that is where most people quietly take everything back.

Is this useful for people who are not managers?

Yes. Senior specialists who are a bottleneck have the same problem and often less support with it.

Do you follow up?

We recommend a short session about a month later to check what actually moved. Intentions are easy in a workshop and hard on a Tuesday.

Related

What this pairs with.

Leadership Coaching

One-to-one work for the managers this keeps happening to.

Leadership Coaching →

Expectations and Accountability

Handing work over only sticks if expectations are clear.

Expectations and Accountability →

Coaching Skills for Managers

The skill that replaces doing it yourself.

Coaching Skills for Managers →

Senior-led, delivered by the person you meet

Get the work off one desk.

Tell us who is drowning and we will scope a session. No obligation, and we will say if one of the others fits better.

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